"if it was genocide i dont think any armenian would be alive today" first all all this is a very Cynic way of expressing about millions of people who have perished like Hrant Dink, for just being an Armenian. Also this is sinful against TRUTH.
Second; what do you mean by "enough killing from both sides."? When have the Armenians killed the turks?
If people talk like you without any healing, there won't be any dialogue.
It was nice of the Turkish people standing up today saying "we are all Armenians, we are all Dink." But can you care for a second that so many people have been killed for just being Armenians?
In my opinion Turkey is today in a very dangerous situation. Either the society will recognize the Armenian genocide and heal, or the Turkish nationalism will take over the country. The later has not been a good option for any society.
The issue of the Armenian Genocide will serve as catalyst.
lets get together first