While family is great to have and children are blessing some bloggers have been critical about the size of the Duggar family, while also acknowledging that the family size is a personal decision.
Rachel M. blogging at Fesshood writes "I think people who have 18 kids are no more responsible than the girls who have babies just to have a baby daddy, because neither of them are making choices they have been blessed with the ability to make. They are simply sitting back and making God and Nature the fall guys, letting go of the control they have and I just think that is sad."
Our response is that the size of the Duggar family is not our business. No one has never said there is limit of how many children you can have. If that's true, in the same way the Duggar family and families like them could with the same success critique others who have only 2-3 children, who are single, who are adulterating, who cheat on their spouse. However, people with larger families "don't have that voice" because they are minority. Now many families have many children.
In regard to responsibility, how do you know what kind of parents the Duggars are. I don't. I have not talked to them, I don't know much about their family setting.
The point is that without knowing the family and being friends with them it is not right and fair to critique based just on the apparent facts.
Do you measure the love that the Duggar parents give to each child daily?